Why Can't I Love Her?

Why do I hate my mother in law :
At first, I thought I was being simply a ‘bad’ or bitchy person and treated my MIL like a fucking bitch. A fucking FAT bitch! Then, I realize ALL her DILs hating her.So, I'm not entirely alone here.And I hate her for …

1. How over bearing & meddling she could be in his sons & a daughter’s married lives.
2. Scenes she creates each time there’s family gathering by crying like a big fat baby to get attention from her offsprings.
3. How loud when she talks irrespective time including at wee hours when our babies asleep. She’s fucking idiot or born stupid or simply brainless! Yes, I’m talking about ‘volume’ turned to the max or ‘high pitch voice’ that irritates all of us.
4. Not looking into the mirror before complaining about how fat her daughter in laws are I am excused here due to my (self proclaimed) slender figure LOL. She is the Javanese version of a black movie titled Yo Momma’s in da House. Ewwww…..
5. How obvious she unfairly treats other grandchildren compared to children popped out by her daughter’s vagina.
6. How she ‘uses’ phrase at her convenience ” You love your wife more than you love me as your mom” to her sons OR “ You can find wives from wet market but mother – only ONE” (that’s her) to get stuff she wants or things done her way.
7. Her smelly armpits and bad body odour. If she sits in our car, my children & I immediately feel like puking! That’s how bad the smell is.
8. Badmouthing her own siblings & in laws. Neighbours & ‘besan’ (her daughter’s mother in law) not excluded! Even neighbours’ chickens can’t escape being bitched by her big fat mouth (same size and as smelly as her arse!).
9. Her messy house and expecting outsiders (daughter in laws) to do the clean ups. She’s so fucking lazy!
10. Clearly demonstrating that she despises it when it’s daughter in laws or a son in law’s turn to have to go back to our hometowns during festive seasons.